Wednesday Member’s Show

With my day offline changing this week let’s do the weekly member’s show Wednesday and that will leave Friday evening open to Chaturbate, if that is where we decided to be. 

Meet me at 11p EST for the member’s show. 

The Upcoming Week’s

It has been awhile since I have thrown a wrench in our schedules, so I figure it is time to do just that. This week I will be online Wednesday, not Thursday. That is not much of a change, but next week I won’t be online from Wednesday through Sunday. Mtnman is taking me into the mountains for a few days. We may pitch a tent, it depends on the weather and how cold the temps drop at night. The areas that we will be, will have very limited cell reception so I won’t be able to stay connected constantly, but I will check in when I am able to. 

It has been awhile since we have been able to take a few days and get away, with the exception of the several trips to Texas over the last 18 months but those were anything but a vacation. 


Member’s Show Tonight

I will be doing a 1 hour LIVE cam show tonight at 11p EST. This will be a full week of member shows, so if you are not able to make it tonight, you’ve still a chance to join me on Thursday. Be sure to click on the banner for the member’s cam show — > 


New Cam Site

Alright, I am trying a few new cam sites over the next couple weeks. The site that I am trying today is ChatTimeNow

If you would like to check it out, please use my referral link, it would be very much appreciated. I will probably test the waters during the day, more so than at night. However, that is subject to change, so please check my Tweets out to find me… 


Recipe Exchange

Would anyone be interested in a recipe exchange? It is kind of a take on cookie exchange, but with it not being the holiday’s yet, I thought sharing recipe’s would be more enticing and might gain some interest. 

Yay or Nay? 

Are You a Spring?

I absolutely love the fall. The cooler temps, the changing of the seasons, the colors. It is just breathtaking, and beautiful. The blazing hot days of August are behind us, the chilly nights and cold mornings are in front of us. I have always loved the fall. It is when the leaves start to fall and the wind picks up, leaving the blooms blown about, with a dusty layer over them. It is a sign of changing times. 

What is your favorite season?

Stephen: Today is a Happy Day!

You, much like the rest of my fella’s, do not think today is a big deal, but I beg to differ. It is your day, and it is a good day to celebrate in a way that makes you smile. Staying in bed, drinking tea and watching TV sounds like it was a perfect beginning to your plans. No matter what, I just want you to enjoy today for what it is, and that is your day! 

Please join me in wishing Stephen a wonderfully happy birthday. He has consistently been supportive and always full of encouragement, even when he has had a bad day. He is good people. 

Meet Abby

Meet Abigail #abbythegolden 

She is sweet, adorable and so loving, but she also has a spurt of puppy energy from time to time that makes me think she is full of piss and vinegar. I love her. 

You All



You all; plural, more than one. 

How are y’all doing? 



One person; singular

How are you doing?


“How are y’all doing” when you enter my cam room because you think it is cute, but there is only one of me, makes you look ridiculous. So, stop. Just stop! STOP! 



It is True, I LOVE Today. . .

. . . and everything it stands for! Today is a day worthy of acknowledgment and celebration! Even if it is just to lift a cup to Dwwindsor in honor of the anniversary of his birthday. A cup of coffee, a glass of scotch, a drink of choice, it does not matter. Lift your cup and wish a very happy anniversary to our resident scholar and bloviator of sorts. 

DW – I know that today is no big deal to you, but it is to me and I love, love, love that you gave me your day so that it can be celebrated and never forgotten! Thank you! 

Happy, happy anniversary of your one and only day! 

Red, Today is Yours . . .

. . .so be happy and celebrate! Years ago you asked that I not make a big deal of it, or even mention it to our online community, however, last year you made mention of it in the chat room, voiding all previous requests of silence. So, today I would like to wish you a very happy birthday! I hope that you have had a beautiful day with family and friends. 


PS- thank you for slipping up and doing this to yourself. I love celebrating birthday’s! 

Happy Birthday, WLTNBN

Happy birthday to my token Brit! The one, and the only, WLTNBN. You are always working, building your home and helping your family replace their carpets, or building them ramps.. today my hope for you is that you do something for yourself, and for fucks sake, please don’t be working. Granted, we all work on our birthday’s, but it is Saturday! Unless you are on call, there is no reason for it. lol. 

I wish you a beautiful day, doing whatever it is that makes you smile. 

Weekend Plans?

It has been awhile since we have had interaction here, so I thought I’d open a thread that hopefully some of you will respond to. What are your weekend plans? 

I am going to an early morning soccer game, then home to let Abby out of her kennel for a bit while I make a grocery list and then go to the store. After that I have a list of stuff I am hoping to accomplish. But, we shall see. It seems my Saturday’s are full and I get a little bit done, but I am hopeful. 

There are a few birthday’s this weekend, and that is exciting for me. Maybe not for you, but for me it is. I love every birthday there is and I truly believe they should all be celebrated. I was sworn off of 1 of the 3 upcoming birthday’s many years ago, but last year he made mention of it in my cam room, voiding out his earlier request for secrecy. Any guess as to who that might be? Go! Be quick because his day is tomorrow… 

August: A Great Month

August was a great month on my site, with a couple week long specials and a good list of new joins. If you were one that took advantage of the “Hot August Nights”  special that ran the first week of the month, and you have rebilled for September, you need to email me ( to collect on your prize. You had to choose between three (3) options and it is only valid if you rebill into September.

Sunrise or Sunset

Which do you prefer, a beautiful sunrise, or a peaceful sunset? I am torn on this one. I have a hard time waking up, but to experience a sunrise is so breathtaking and cleansing. It is as though the world is coming alive, together as one. The birds are chirping, the animals are starting to stir and the chickens are clucking. To see the sun rising over the horizon when the air is clean and the world is peacefully quiet is just amazing. With that said, a sunset is a time to reflect on the day. Everything is coming to an end, winding down and getting ready for the night time. Everything is abuzz, as the sun slowly descends on the next horizon, saying goodbye to us, while it is morning on the other side. It is so fascinating to think about it once you slow down long enough to truly appreciate it.

So, are you a sunrise or a sunset kind of person?

Puppy Pick Up Has Arrived ! ! !


When you read this, I will be holding a beautiful bundle of fur and happiness. She may or may not have a name by now, but regardless of that, she is already loved! I cannot wait to share her with you in tweets and an abundance of pictures. I think she will be an Instagram Golden because, well, why not? Instead of flooding my twitter TL with her #dailypics, I think an IG account is more fitting. With that said, she will also be on twitter. lol.

Weekend in PHX

Weekend in PHX

Our weekend in Phoenix was short, but packed with fun, mixed in with training. It was Rob’s birthday, which we spent at the ballpark watching the Braves, but we also made time to learn how to edit a video. Rob took the time to set it up prior to our arrival and it was a quick, but very informative couple of days. It is always great to see Rob and Dawn. They are good people who are generous with their time and knowledge, and always fun energy to be around. So, thank you both, for sharing your weekend with us, but especially a birthday. I hope to be able to expand on my video editing skills once I get a hang of what I am doing with the simple steps required.

Friday we did some day drinking and I am pretty sure that I was drunk and hung over all at the same time.

Saturday was the day that we went to the Braves game. I love ballparks. And, I ate a hot dog.

Sunday Dawn cooked breakfast for us and ChiDiablo. Have you ever had bacon cooked in the oven? If the answer is no, you need to stop what you are doing and throw a package in the oven right now. And, she made biscuits and gravy, which is my favorite. The gravy was perfect and the biscuits were fluffy. So delicious!

Love you both. #family

What Relaxes You?

We all have a routine after work, that helps us wind down from the day. For me it used to be playing Toyblast; it allowed me to escape and just forget, without making me think. I still play TB on my breaks and during idle times, but I now I read to rest my mind and to allow me to get ready to sleep. What do you do after a long day at work that gets you ready for bed? 

Going Back to My Roots

I know I keep throwing my divorce out there, at the most random of times, but I cannot express enough how relieved I am to be finished and ready for my next chapter; a true #newbeginning. I am looking forward to so many changes, and a very positive future. Today I am going to the DMV to change my name; I am going back to my maiden name. I think everyone should remember where they came from, good or bad, and to be able to reflect on it has made me appreciative to have had a loving home as a child. It has helped me process a lot in recent years and, although, sometimes I think that maybe forgetting would be easier, I am glad I have my experiences to know what I want for my 40’s and beyond. I will always have my maiden name as a part of who I am, from here on out. 

Your Reading List

I have gotten back into reading now that I am settled and finally finished with the divorce. It is relaxing and I enjoy reading different subjects, much more than I used to. It seemed like one I found a subject, I would go to the book store and buy as many books on that one topic, that I could find. Now, I have a whole stack of books that are from all sorts of fields. 

I am currently reading “Winter in Madrid”; it is a good read, but it took me awhile to get into it and now I can hardly put it down to go to sleep. While on our trip to PHX, I came home with three new books, but before I delve into those, I think I am going to read a book about the Lindbergh baby, or maybe one on Amelia Earhart. I also recently read an article on Eleanor Roosevelt, which has peaked my interest into more about her life. Has anyone a good recommendation on her? I am not too interested in the politics, but more her story. 

What are you currently reading? 

Second Week into September

Wow, it seems like we were just starting August, and here we are on the second week of September. I’ve had a lot of changes over the last couple of years, and it seems that there are more in the near future. All good things, though, I assure you of that!

Before I share my big news with you, let me give a big thank you to those of you that have stood by me. Most of you were happy for me when I made a big change, and you patiently stood by me without demanding answers that were not yours to have. Nothing changed with my site, with the exception of going 100% solo, but my cam schedule was sporadic through last summer and most of you checked on me throughout the days/weeks and were always quick to give a kind word. We did lose a couple along the way. Those who felt entitled to my decisions and felt they had been wronged in some, weird and twisted way. For me, it was a relief to see have those people walk away from me. To those who are still part of my life, thank you. You guys mean more to me than you might realize. 

Now, on to my news. We are getting a dog and she will be picked up on Saturday. A beautiful golden retriever and she is going to be so sweet and loving. I cannot wait to share her with you all, on Twitter and VNA. lol. I might even have to open an instagram just for her.. or a Twitter account. I cannot decide which, to be honest. Either way, she will definitely be a star! 

And, I am going to be making changes to my Snapchat account soon, in that I will be giving it out for FREE, but in order to see the boy/girl vids and pics, along with full on nudity, you will have to join my premium snapchat. I am still working out the details on that. 

Also, I am thinking about doing a raffle through the holiday’s for baked goodies and a few other items. I am still working out the details on that, so stay tuned. Obviously, there will be a newsletter sent out regarding both the baked goods raffle and snapchat, when I am ready to offer both. 

The Hot August Nights Special and the Burning Man Sale was a huge success, so thank you to all of the new joins. I hope that you are enjoying my site and that you will continue to come back for more. 

Bless Your Heart . . .

Next Week

The next couple of week’s are going to be chaotic, as far as being online goes. I am going to take Labor Day off, which is rare for me, but I am ready for a break that does not entail me going out of town, shooting content or any other commitments. And, I will be leaving for PHX Thursday evening, but will return home Sunday. So, a quick trip, but one that will impact my cam schedule. The following week I will be online most of the week, except for Friday evening. Not much change there… here is what the schedule will be:

Week of Sept 2nd:

Sunday – on cam, like usual.

Monday (Labor day) – offline all day, except for the VNA LIVE member’s show at 11p EST 

Tuesday and Wednesday – on cam and Wednesday will be the member’s show at 11p EST 

Thursday – I will be online up to my normal dinner break, but won’t be back until Monday..

Week of Sept 9th:

Sunday – offline (traveling home from PHX)

Monday and Tuesday – on cam, like usual

Thursday – on cam, like usual

Friday – on cam up to my dinner break

Your Favorite Sitcom

Amber and I were talking about Gilligan’s Island and it got us to talking about the different sitcoms of yesteryear. My absolute favorite series was the Andy Griffith Show, but also Mash. They were timeless and I think are still watched by today’s youth. Or, at least, I hope that they are. 

What were some of your favorite shows when you were a kid?

Bunny Sighting

Sunday Night MtnMan spotted a cottontail hopping out from the spaghetti squash and taking cover behind a couple big boulders. I only saw the top of his head, and he squished down further once he realized he could be spotted. Adorable! 

I was hoping that he would take cover in amongst the veggies so that he could live with us, in harmony. lol. But, alas, he must have moved on because it is day 2 and there has been no sighting of his cute face.